I'm sure there are a few people that have some choice words for me. This is an open invitation for ANYONE to post how they feel about this situation... positive or negative. Don't fret... I won't start this about anyone who posts... this is just all about Ebony and her need to face her fears. She doesn't like confrontation... she needs to get some balls.
If you don't want to post because you don't want to 'sink to my level'... fuck you, pussy.
I'm quite curious to hear about what bullshit Ebony has spread about me... besides here on the web. Friends usually only see things as told by other friends. I'm not that way. I calls it as I sees it... and I see a chickenshit coward (redundant, I know) living across the hall.
Quit being a victim and gain some power. "I'm not going to respond to that immaturity." Yeah... because you can't handle it. You're a wimp. Turning the other cheek is the pussy way out. You're leading the way for future pussies.
My daughter sure as hell won't be in that line.
Friday, May 22, 2009
She's at it again...
So... Ebony has a new blog...
elizabethpegues.blogspot.com
You have to be invited or ask to be invited to read it.
She even hides on the internet.
CHICKENSHIT!!!
elizabethpegues.blogspot.com
You have to be invited or ask to be invited to read it.
She even hides on the internet.
CHICKENSHIT!!!
Hate is too weak a word...
I'm so far from over with messing with Ebony. It's not a good idea to talk about someone's mothering skills. It really bugs me.
It will all be over if she ever gets off her high horse and apologizes to me. Until then... let the torturing continue.
It will all be over if she ever gets off her high horse and apologizes to me. Until then... let the torturing continue.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Ebony's Inner Monolouge
Since Ebony decided to take her blog down... I have taken over the same URL. I will be posting what Ebony is thinking... taken from what she has already written.
I've already started with the first post. She's such a victim.
~Ambarbituate
I've already started with the first post. She's such a victim.
~Ambarbituate
She shoots... she scores...
Ebony has taken down her blog. She's still running. She will never face up to the problem SHE started.
Don't ever talk about my mothering skills.
Don't ever talk about my mothering skills.
Elizabeth's latest response to Ebony's drama...
Ebony,
Are you serious?
Yes, you will get slammed for playing the race card…
Race was never an issue in all of this.
But since you want to go there…
How can a spoiled self centered child equate this situation to that of a FIELD NIGGER?
It is so disgusting that you would malign the legacy of all of the African slaves who built up the infrastructure of our country while suffering under the worst injustices in our history.
I would have never had said a word about any of this had it not been for the nasty things that you said on your blog…
You say you were made to feel like a field nigger… Ha! You wouldn’t last 5 minutes out in the field…
Maybe if Amber had a role on General Hospital or a talk show like Ellen, her daughter would have been worthy of some of your attention.
You are the most shallow & selfish person that I have encountered in quite some time.
You worship celebrities and disparage your friends…
And if you would have bothered to come out of your room and notice you would have seen me sitting in your living room watching the baby so Amber could take a shower, do the dishes, take out the trash and do some laundry.
You really don’t have a clue because you sequestered yourself to your bedroom where you could harbor all of your judgments and resentments.
Not buying the race thing a bit!
P.S.
When you’re in a hole it’s best to quit digging!
Elizabeth
Are you serious?
Yes, you will get slammed for playing the race card…
Race was never an issue in all of this.
But since you want to go there…
How can a spoiled self centered child equate this situation to that of a FIELD NIGGER?
It is so disgusting that you would malign the legacy of all of the African slaves who built up the infrastructure of our country while suffering under the worst injustices in our history.
I would have never had said a word about any of this had it not been for the nasty things that you said on your blog…
You say you were made to feel like a field nigger… Ha! You wouldn’t last 5 minutes out in the field…
Maybe if Amber had a role on General Hospital or a talk show like Ellen, her daughter would have been worthy of some of your attention.
You are the most shallow & selfish person that I have encountered in quite some time.
You worship celebrities and disparage your friends…
And if you would have bothered to come out of your room and notice you would have seen me sitting in your living room watching the baby so Amber could take a shower, do the dishes, take out the trash and do some laundry.
You really don’t have a clue because you sequestered yourself to your bedroom where you could harbor all of your judgments and resentments.
Not buying the race thing a bit!
P.S.
When you’re in a hole it’s best to quit digging!
Elizabeth
Side Note:
This is also being posted on Facebook and Myspace. I've gotten nothing from positive responses to all of this. Everyone notices the excuses she's making... even folks that haven't met either of us.
I've also have recieved many requests to get violent with Ebony. That is not the answer. I don't condone violence... anymore. I've grown up and will fight with my words. Don't get me wrong though... if someone wants to step up... I'm game. I will just not start it... I'm more of a finisher.
~Ambarbituate
I've also have recieved many requests to get violent with Ebony. That is not the answer. I don't condone violence... anymore. I've grown up and will fight with my words. Don't get me wrong though... if someone wants to step up... I'm game. I will just not start it... I'm more of a finisher.
~Ambarbituate
Stupidity comes in all shapes and sizes...
Well... Ebony decided once again to post on her blog instead of saying anything to anyone's face. I will do the same since she seems to never be around.... could she be hiding? I wouldn't be surprised. We'll see this Saturday when Elizabeth is over to hang out and go swimming.
She says she has pictures of the kitchen. It's true. It was a fucking mess to compete will all messes. She even wrote me a passive aggressive email about it. I explained to her that I'm fucking exhausted. At the time, I was riding 8 buses a day just to get my baby to the sitter, and myself to work. After working 40 hours, watching the baby.... and feeding her the homemade food I made for her... I was too damn tired to clean a kitchen. I was doing my best. She actually apologized and asked what she could do to help.
TAKE OUT THE FUCKING GARBAGE, YOU LAZY BITCH. Maybe, instead of taking pictures, you could've helped a bit. You lived here too. If it's so damn horrible, so something about it. Don't complain. You have 2 arms and 2 legs. You obviously have hands if you're able to type bullshit out all day. I also didn't clean the bathroom that much (I did do it... but not frequently). Her nasty ass black hair was all over the place. I would take a shower and I would be pulling her hair off my body... after my shower. It was highly disgusting... but I lived with it. I came to terms that she didn't have enough common sense (yes... again with the common sense) to clean up after her shedding activities in the bathroom. I may not have pictures, but when my friends would come over, they would actually ask me about the black hair all over the bathroom. I would just shrug and say, "I know... it's gross".
I'm sure all her friends think I'm some lazy bitch that doesn't do anything. So what. I care about what my friends and family think. They actually came over and hung out with me. My baby daddy (and Aunt) would come over and watch the baby when I asked them, so that I could do laundry... or TAKE OUT THE GARBAGE. It got the point that I just didn't care anymore. If she didn't care... why should I? I have better things to do... like spend time with my child. What's more important... dishes or spending time with a child that was at a babysitter for 11 hours a day while I worked and rode the bus?
Since Ebony has moved, MY apartment has been spotless. There is no odor. There are no dishes on the counter. There isn't any trash in the kitchen... or in the 2nd bedroom. It took a day to clean... with the help of a family member. Someone who never lived here, but cared enough to help. After Ebony gave me her 30 days... I purposly let the house get worse. I wanted her out sooner... and it worked. The day after she left... the trash was taken out... since the garbage was already gone.
Why do I keep going with this? Because Ebony needs to realize there are reactions to her actions. I will not stop until she gets this through her head... which I expect to be never. So, not only do I work full time, nuture my baby, and clean my house... I now have an exciting hobby that will always be entertaining.
See you later in the hall (maybe this time you won't cower as you lumber by)...
Ambarbituate
P.s... I think I'll go smoke a bowl.
She says she has pictures of the kitchen. It's true. It was a fucking mess to compete will all messes. She even wrote me a passive aggressive email about it. I explained to her that I'm fucking exhausted. At the time, I was riding 8 buses a day just to get my baby to the sitter, and myself to work. After working 40 hours, watching the baby.... and feeding her the homemade food I made for her... I was too damn tired to clean a kitchen. I was doing my best. She actually apologized and asked what she could do to help.
TAKE OUT THE FUCKING GARBAGE, YOU LAZY BITCH. Maybe, instead of taking pictures, you could've helped a bit. You lived here too. If it's so damn horrible, so something about it. Don't complain. You have 2 arms and 2 legs. You obviously have hands if you're able to type bullshit out all day. I also didn't clean the bathroom that much (I did do it... but not frequently). Her nasty ass black hair was all over the place. I would take a shower and I would be pulling her hair off my body... after my shower. It was highly disgusting... but I lived with it. I came to terms that she didn't have enough common sense (yes... again with the common sense) to clean up after her shedding activities in the bathroom. I may not have pictures, but when my friends would come over, they would actually ask me about the black hair all over the bathroom. I would just shrug and say, "I know... it's gross".
I'm sure all her friends think I'm some lazy bitch that doesn't do anything. So what. I care about what my friends and family think. They actually came over and hung out with me. My baby daddy (and Aunt) would come over and watch the baby when I asked them, so that I could do laundry... or TAKE OUT THE GARBAGE. It got the point that I just didn't care anymore. If she didn't care... why should I? I have better things to do... like spend time with my child. What's more important... dishes or spending time with a child that was at a babysitter for 11 hours a day while I worked and rode the bus?
Since Ebony has moved, MY apartment has been spotless. There is no odor. There are no dishes on the counter. There isn't any trash in the kitchen... or in the 2nd bedroom. It took a day to clean... with the help of a family member. Someone who never lived here, but cared enough to help. After Ebony gave me her 30 days... I purposly let the house get worse. I wanted her out sooner... and it worked. The day after she left... the trash was taken out... since the garbage was already gone.
Why do I keep going with this? Because Ebony needs to realize there are reactions to her actions. I will not stop until she gets this through her head... which I expect to be never. So, not only do I work full time, nuture my baby, and clean my house... I now have an exciting hobby that will always be entertaining.
See you later in the hall (maybe this time you won't cower as you lumber by)...
Ambarbituate
P.s... I think I'll go smoke a bowl.
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
What I really sent Ebony...
You wouldn't know it by her blog post, but she didn't post the entire email I sent her. Below is the whole email... not chopped up to make her look good.
******
This is beyond childish. Don't tell me what I think or not. I think you should get your deposit, period.
My stepmother is an apartment manager. I've dealt with this whole damn clicker thing before. They are usually coded and linked to specific apartments. If you were to lose that clicker, there would be a fee to replace it. I will not pay a fee for a replacement clicker when it hasn't been returned after you have moved. The clicker is linked to the apartment, not the parking spot. Your comparsion with apples and oranges proves you do not have the common sense needed for this situation.
I asked Barry for a new one, so that's done and over with. I find it humorous that you now have stuff to say to me. You couldn't express your feelings before, why start now. It's way too late to make me care about your opionion, especially since you never had one before.
Stop wasting both our time. Seriously. I'm over it. This is just becoming something to laugh about with my friends.
I'm proud of you for finally asserting yourself a bit... but it's too late.
******
This is beyond childish. Don't tell me what I think or not. I think you should get your deposit, period.
My stepmother is an apartment manager. I've dealt with this whole damn clicker thing before. They are usually coded and linked to specific apartments. If you were to lose that clicker, there would be a fee to replace it. I will not pay a fee for a replacement clicker when it hasn't been returned after you have moved. The clicker is linked to the apartment, not the parking spot. Your comparsion with apples and oranges proves you do not have the common sense needed for this situation.
I asked Barry for a new one, so that's done and over with. I find it humorous that you now have stuff to say to me. You couldn't express your feelings before, why start now. It's way too late to make me care about your opionion, especially since you never had one before.
Stop wasting both our time. Seriously. I'm over it. This is just becoming something to laugh about with my friends.
I'm proud of you for finally asserting yourself a bit... but it's too late.
The blog post that started the fun...
I had NO IDEA that my roommate felt this way about me. She never said anything to me. I would ask her stuff when she walked through the door... and she would say stuff like, 'I had a bad day at work', then go into her room and resent me, I guess.
And by the way... I don't smoke pot in front of my kid all day. I work. I take care of my kid. I spend time with people that actually care about me. What a joke.
******
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
It's NEVER Too Late To Grow A Backbone
As this is my first blog post, I wanted to first take the chance to thank all my readers for joining me here. The meaning behind both the photo and the name is for the first time I feel empowered as both a woman and a black woman.Whether you've been in a situation of abuse, neglect, or lived in a world of victimtude (I made that up), I'm sure you can relate no matter your race or culture. But I bring this all up because lately, I've been faced with certain demons and one of them, well I'll refrain from naming her. We'll just call her Smith.So Smith took time out of her busy day to write me this lovely note via email about me not giving her my gate clicker that I need for our building:
This is beyond childish. Don't tell me what I think or not.
...Your comparsion with applesand oranges proves you do not have the common sense needed for thissituation....I find it humorous that you now have stuff to say tome. You couldn't express your feelings before, why start now. It'sway too late to make me care about your opionion, especially since you never hadone before.Stop wasting both our time. Seriously. I'mover it. This is just becoming something to laugh about with myfriends.I'm proud of you for finally asserting yourself a bit...but it's too late honey.I want to take the opportunity to focus on the line "it's too late honey". Aside from the fact that this girl is delusional, lazy, neglectful, neglected, and a leech, she was right about one thing; my waiting to assert myself is long overdue. Yea. She ran the show. But hers was canceled and mine now begins.I highlight that email because it feels damn good to finally grew a backbone. She asks why now. I look in the White House and see a first lady with the same skin tone as mine and people call her beautiful. Why now? That took a long time coming.Another reason for why now is because in times like these I feel the spirit of grandmother Marguerite (Elizabeth Murdock Pegues) cut folks like Smith left and right. I had never felt so backed in a corner like I did living a foot or two away from that angry spirit that IS Smith.I'm reading a book right now that says we should love our enemies and wish them well. I know that's easier said then done and I'm sure in a loose manner we say, "I hope so and so gets their shit together", but most of the time we don't mean it.Well I'll declare it now. I want Smith to succeed. I want her to find her backbone like I found mine instead of constantly leaning on the goodwill of others and trying to rip them to shreds when she drains them with her negative, useless energy.And good luck to her daughter. Her mother isn't much of a role model. And she's definitely no Michelle Obama.EP
Posted by Elizabeth Pegues at 4:11 PM
Labels: Michelle Obama, Smith
5 comments:
zizizzi said...
What a crock... You have all this nonsense here about wanting to help kids etc. But when your roommate was suffering in pain with a hernia the size of a large grapefruit, you couldn't even be bothered to take out the trash! You never lifted a finger to help her and her infant daughter out. Maybe if her "friend" and roommate could have been a little more helpful when she came home after having a c-section the incision would not have ruptured... But NO, you would just prefer to call her lazy...I saw her get up every day and take her baby to the sitter and go to work on the bus...I saw her carry that baby and her laundry up and down the stairs because her roommate couldn't even watch the kid while she threw in a load or took out the garbage.Yes it's true that trying to care for a newborn after surgery and dealing with a hernia and going to work everyday left her little time for house cleaning... But did you ever lift a finger to help her out... NO! No, you lied to her and told her that you would give her a couple of months to recover from her hernia surgery before moving out and then you gave 30 days notice DAYS before her surgery... That just goes to show how much you care about children... You put your selfish needs ahead of a baby's. You did not care if that baby ended up out on the street...You are obviously so self centered... I pray that the lord never blesses you with a child.Or at least not until you grow up... You may be 30 but you are unbelievably childish
May 19, 2009 2:29 PM
zizizzi said...
Oh Yeah,And you are definitely no Michelle Obama either.
May 19, 2009 3:07 PM
Elizabeth Pegues said...
Maybe if she gave up the potsmoking all day in front of her kid, I'd give a shit. But I don't. Buzz off. I have emails that proves she's lying. Have a nice life.
May 19, 2009 3:38 PM
Elizabeth Pegues said...
Oh Elizabeth, I would like to be make one other comment since you're all stalking and can't just leave the fuck alone. You should be saying this shit to THE FATHER OF THE CHILD! I'm not that child's father. And I didn't have unprotected sex with anybody to create her. I believe that every child is precious, but if the PARENTS don't want to step up and take responsibility, that's my not fucking fault! Where was HE to prevent her c-section injuries? Answer that question or shut the FUCK UP! Where was HE to provide his child home? WHERE WERE YOU TO OFFER HER A PLACE TO LIVE?Now I am done with all of you.
May 19, 2009 5:25 PM
And by the way... I don't smoke pot in front of my kid all day. I work. I take care of my kid. I spend time with people that actually care about me. What a joke.
******
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
It's NEVER Too Late To Grow A Backbone
As this is my first blog post, I wanted to first take the chance to thank all my readers for joining me here. The meaning behind both the photo and the name is for the first time I feel empowered as both a woman and a black woman.Whether you've been in a situation of abuse, neglect, or lived in a world of victimtude (I made that up), I'm sure you can relate no matter your race or culture. But I bring this all up because lately, I've been faced with certain demons and one of them, well I'll refrain from naming her. We'll just call her Smith.So Smith took time out of her busy day to write me this lovely note via email about me not giving her my gate clicker that I need for our building:
This is beyond childish. Don't tell me what I think or not.
...Your comparsion with applesand oranges proves you do not have the common sense needed for thissituation....I find it humorous that you now have stuff to say tome. You couldn't express your feelings before, why start now. It'sway too late to make me care about your opionion, especially since you never hadone before.Stop wasting both our time. Seriously. I'mover it. This is just becoming something to laugh about with myfriends.I'm proud of you for finally asserting yourself a bit...but it's too late honey.I want to take the opportunity to focus on the line "it's too late honey". Aside from the fact that this girl is delusional, lazy, neglectful, neglected, and a leech, she was right about one thing; my waiting to assert myself is long overdue. Yea. She ran the show. But hers was canceled and mine now begins.I highlight that email because it feels damn good to finally grew a backbone. She asks why now. I look in the White House and see a first lady with the same skin tone as mine and people call her beautiful. Why now? That took a long time coming.Another reason for why now is because in times like these I feel the spirit of grandmother Marguerite (Elizabeth Murdock Pegues) cut folks like Smith left and right. I had never felt so backed in a corner like I did living a foot or two away from that angry spirit that IS Smith.I'm reading a book right now that says we should love our enemies and wish them well. I know that's easier said then done and I'm sure in a loose manner we say, "I hope so and so gets their shit together", but most of the time we don't mean it.Well I'll declare it now. I want Smith to succeed. I want her to find her backbone like I found mine instead of constantly leaning on the goodwill of others and trying to rip them to shreds when she drains them with her negative, useless energy.And good luck to her daughter. Her mother isn't much of a role model. And she's definitely no Michelle Obama.EP
Posted by Elizabeth Pegues at 4:11 PM
Labels: Michelle Obama, Smith
5 comments:
zizizzi said...
What a crock... You have all this nonsense here about wanting to help kids etc. But when your roommate was suffering in pain with a hernia the size of a large grapefruit, you couldn't even be bothered to take out the trash! You never lifted a finger to help her and her infant daughter out. Maybe if her "friend" and roommate could have been a little more helpful when she came home after having a c-section the incision would not have ruptured... But NO, you would just prefer to call her lazy...I saw her get up every day and take her baby to the sitter and go to work on the bus...I saw her carry that baby and her laundry up and down the stairs because her roommate couldn't even watch the kid while she threw in a load or took out the garbage.Yes it's true that trying to care for a newborn after surgery and dealing with a hernia and going to work everyday left her little time for house cleaning... But did you ever lift a finger to help her out... NO! No, you lied to her and told her that you would give her a couple of months to recover from her hernia surgery before moving out and then you gave 30 days notice DAYS before her surgery... That just goes to show how much you care about children... You put your selfish needs ahead of a baby's. You did not care if that baby ended up out on the street...You are obviously so self centered... I pray that the lord never blesses you with a child.Or at least not until you grow up... You may be 30 but you are unbelievably childish
May 19, 2009 2:29 PM
zizizzi said...
Oh Yeah,And you are definitely no Michelle Obama either.
May 19, 2009 3:07 PM
Elizabeth Pegues said...
Maybe if she gave up the potsmoking all day in front of her kid, I'd give a shit. But I don't. Buzz off. I have emails that proves she's lying. Have a nice life.
May 19, 2009 3:38 PM
Elizabeth Pegues said...
Oh Elizabeth, I would like to be make one other comment since you're all stalking and can't just leave the fuck alone. You should be saying this shit to THE FATHER OF THE CHILD! I'm not that child's father. And I didn't have unprotected sex with anybody to create her. I believe that every child is precious, but if the PARENTS don't want to step up and take responsibility, that's my not fucking fault! Where was HE to prevent her c-section injuries? Answer that question or shut the FUCK UP! Where was HE to provide his child home? WHERE WERE YOU TO OFFER HER A PLACE TO LIVE?Now I am done with all of you.
May 19, 2009 5:25 PM
Open Letter to Elizabeth Murdoch Peques (Ebony Jones)
This letter was written by my Aunt Elizabeth and sent via Myspace, since Ebony has blocked Liz from her blog and facebook. Ebony blogged some negative stuff about me and my one year old daughter. This will be posted on here soon.
Mess with the bull... and you get the horns.
******
Ebony,
Wow, you are so self righteous...
Resorting to profanity? How classy of you.
Would Michelle Obama act this way?
I think not. Would she go online to vent her petty grievances (and disparage someone who thought they were friends) because she did not have the courage to do it face to face?
I think not!
You are certainly no Michelle Obama... She is a very strong, intelligent, beautiful, compassionate woman who has the ability to hold her own in a relationship with the most powerful man in the free world. She is an example of what we should all strive to be.
As far as I can tell you are none of those things...
You obviously have no experience in the complexities of relationships.
Salem’s father IS in her life and he is a loving and supportive father. But yes it's true he does not live in the house with her. There are many kinds of families these days. We no longer live in the TV Land world of Donna Reid (if we ever really did). If you had bothered to come out of your room you would have known how helpful he has been before and after "Smith" had her surgery.
But do you honestly think that he should get in his car to drive over to YOUR apartment and take out the trash when YOU walk right by the trash and trash cans every day?
They say charity begins at home...
I guess not in YOUR home.
So, these kids you want to mentor... Are they off limits if they are born out of wedlock?
Are they off limits if they are the result of unprotected sex?
Are you aware of the divorce rate in this country? I'm glad that Salem’s parents are mature enough not to put her through that kind of hell.
You posted some very negative & judgmental things here about "Smith", someone who I happen to care very much about. I don't consider it stalking to set you straight!
You say you don't want to name names and then you put her name out there...
You know Ebony, Amber has never uttered a negative word about you to me... She has more class than that! My comments are based on my own observations... In fact there were times when I didn't like the way that things were going down that she actually defended you!
But you on the other hand sat in your room for a year harboring your judgments & resentments while a foot or two away was a woman who considered you a FRIEND struggling and in PAIN. And you want to call her "lazy".
There was a beautiful child living right there in your home and you avoided her because you don't like her mothers lifestyle? You knew who Amber was before you moved in with her.
You had an opportunity to provide an example of a strong and caring friend but you chose not to.
I thank the lord that Salem will not have YOU as a role model in her life! She will be raised around people who are strong, caring and compassionate.
It takes a village to raise a child and YOU have been acting like the village idiot!
And while we all know that Amber can take care of herself and that she will not end up on the street (her family would take her in if necessary) you really showed just how cold hearted you are by giving 30 days notice days before her surgery. Especially after you told her that you would give her some time to recover.
If this is an example of "backbone" I'd rather be a jellyfish!
Elizabeth
Mess with the bull... and you get the horns.
******
Ebony,
Wow, you are so self righteous...
Resorting to profanity? How classy of you.
Would Michelle Obama act this way?
I think not. Would she go online to vent her petty grievances (and disparage someone who thought they were friends) because she did not have the courage to do it face to face?
I think not!
You are certainly no Michelle Obama... She is a very strong, intelligent, beautiful, compassionate woman who has the ability to hold her own in a relationship with the most powerful man in the free world. She is an example of what we should all strive to be.
As far as I can tell you are none of those things...
You obviously have no experience in the complexities of relationships.
Salem’s father IS in her life and he is a loving and supportive father. But yes it's true he does not live in the house with her. There are many kinds of families these days. We no longer live in the TV Land world of Donna Reid (if we ever really did). If you had bothered to come out of your room you would have known how helpful he has been before and after "Smith" had her surgery.
But do you honestly think that he should get in his car to drive over to YOUR apartment and take out the trash when YOU walk right by the trash and trash cans every day?
They say charity begins at home...
I guess not in YOUR home.
So, these kids you want to mentor... Are they off limits if they are born out of wedlock?
Are they off limits if they are the result of unprotected sex?
Are you aware of the divorce rate in this country? I'm glad that Salem’s parents are mature enough not to put her through that kind of hell.
You posted some very negative & judgmental things here about "Smith", someone who I happen to care very much about. I don't consider it stalking to set you straight!
You say you don't want to name names and then you put her name out there...
You know Ebony, Amber has never uttered a negative word about you to me... She has more class than that! My comments are based on my own observations... In fact there were times when I didn't like the way that things were going down that she actually defended you!
But you on the other hand sat in your room for a year harboring your judgments & resentments while a foot or two away was a woman who considered you a FRIEND struggling and in PAIN. And you want to call her "lazy".
There was a beautiful child living right there in your home and you avoided her because you don't like her mothers lifestyle? You knew who Amber was before you moved in with her.
You had an opportunity to provide an example of a strong and caring friend but you chose not to.
I thank the lord that Salem will not have YOU as a role model in her life! She will be raised around people who are strong, caring and compassionate.
It takes a village to raise a child and YOU have been acting like the village idiot!
And while we all know that Amber can take care of herself and that she will not end up on the street (her family would take her in if necessary) you really showed just how cold hearted you are by giving 30 days notice days before her surgery. Especially after you told her that you would give her some time to recover.
If this is an example of "backbone" I'd rather be a jellyfish!
Elizabeth
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