Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Open Letter to Elizabeth Murdoch Peques (Ebony Jones)

This letter was written by my Aunt Elizabeth and sent via Myspace, since Ebony has blocked Liz from her blog and facebook. Ebony blogged some negative stuff about me and my one year old daughter. This will be posted on here soon.

Mess with the bull... and you get the horns.

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Ebony,

Wow, you are so self righteous...

Resorting to profanity? How classy of you.
Would Michelle Obama act this way?
I think not. Would she go online to vent her petty grievances (and disparage someone who thought they were friends) because she did not have the courage to do it face to face?
I think not!

You are certainly no Michelle Obama... She is a very strong, intelligent, beautiful, compassionate woman who has the ability to hold her own in a relationship with the most powerful man in the free world. She is an example of what we should all strive to be.

As far as I can tell you are none of those things...

You obviously have no experience in the complexities of relationships.

Salem’s father IS in her life and he is a loving and supportive father. But yes it's true he does not live in the house with her. There are many kinds of families these days. We no longer live in the TV Land world of Donna Reid (if we ever really did). If you had bothered to come out of your room you would have known how helpful he has been before and after "Smith" had her surgery.
But do you honestly think that he should get in his car to drive over to YOUR apartment and take out the trash when YOU walk right by the trash and trash cans every day?

They say charity begins at home...
I guess not in YOUR home.

So, these kids you want to mentor... Are they off limits if they are born out of wedlock?
Are they off limits if they are the result of unprotected sex?

Are you aware of the divorce rate in this country? I'm glad that Salem’s parents are mature enough not to put her through that kind of hell.

You posted some very negative & judgmental things here about "Smith", someone who I happen to care very much about. I don't consider it stalking to set you straight!

You say you don't want to name names and then you put her name out there...

You know Ebony, Amber has never uttered a negative word about you to me... She has more class than that! My comments are based on my own observations... In fact there were times when I didn't like the way that things were going down that she actually defended you!

But you on the other hand sat in your room for a year harboring your judgments & resentments while a foot or two away was a woman who considered you a FRIEND struggling and in PAIN. And you want to call her "lazy".

There was a beautiful child living right there in your home and you avoided her because you don't like her mothers lifestyle? You knew who Amber was before you moved in with her.
You had an opportunity to provide an example of a strong and caring friend but you chose not to.

I thank the lord that Salem will not have YOU as a role model in her life! She will be raised around people who are strong, caring and compassionate.

It takes a village to raise a child and YOU have been acting like the village idiot!

And while we all know that Amber can take care of herself and that she will not end up on the street (her family would take her in if necessary) you really showed just how cold hearted you are by giving 30 days notice days before her surgery. Especially after you told her that you would give her some time to recover.

If this is an example of "backbone" I'd rather be a jellyfish!

Elizabeth

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